August 2015

31
Aug

Chofetz Chaim Daily 16 Elul

Chofetz Chaim Daily 16 Elul 8:4 Rechilus is asur even if the comment ploni made wasnt so bad, ex. When Sarah said and my husband is old Hashem didnt repeat that part to Avraham. 8:5 if someone tells you a secret, you may not repeat it, it can damage him and isnt derech tznius.

30
Aug

Chofetz Chaim Daily 15 Elul

Chofetz Chaim Daily 15 Elul 8:1 Asur to say Avak rechilus – negative implication (e.g. to tell R how ploni said lets not talk about what R did). 2) Praise that will cause hard feelings is also avak rechilus (e.g. to praise one before his spouse or partner about their charity giving; it will make the other think their wasting

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30
Aug

Chofetz Chaim Daily 14 Elul

Chofetz Chaim Daily 14 Elul 7:5 Asur to believe rechilus regardless of who is telling it to you, even ones spouse. The ChofetzChaim gives some advice; showing your willingness to listen, will bring many more such stories and with them much heartache.

28
Aug

Chofetz Chaim Daily 13 Elul

Chofetz Chaim Daily 13 Elul 7:3 Asur to tell someone how ploni badmouthed him, likewise asur to tell that someones wife and relatives cuz theyll get upset at ploni. 7:4 Much worse to say rechilus to a non-Jew about a Jew, cuz he may harm the Jew. Also asur to denigrate product or service that Jew provided for non-Jew.

27
Aug

Chofetz Chaim Daily 12 Elul

Chofetz Chaim Daily 12 Elul 7:2 Asur to say rechilus on an am haaretz. On a talmid chacham much worse a)its probably false b)it violates mitzvah to honor and respect them c)much worse ramifications (i.e. can ruin his influence, create big fight, he will lose his position).

26
Aug

Chofetz Chaim Daily 11 Elul

Chofetz Chaim Daily 11 Elul 7:1 Laws of rechilus apply to all Jews, and no difference if subject is a man, woman or child. Chofetz Chaim warns against telling parent A that child B hit his son because it can cause a big feud (unless all conditions have been met, will be discussed later).

25
Aug

Chofetz Chaim Daily 10 Elul

Chofetz Chaim Daily 10 Elul 6:8 Asur to believe rechilus even if it was a casual remark. See part 1 7:10-14 for all laws of masiach lefi tumo. 6:9 Mutar to believe rechilus if you have circumstantial proof ONLY if a)theres no way to favorably interpret the evidence b)proof is directly related to rechilus story c)you yourself witnessed it d)there

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24
Aug

Chofetz Chaim Daily 9 Elul

Chofetz Chaim Daily 9 Elul 6:5 Mutar to BELIEVE rechilus told to you by a “trustworthy person” ONLY if the info is crucial and he saw it firsthand. 6:6 “Trustworthy” means someone who never lies, and you trust him like two witnesses, for all matters. 6:7 Nowadays we cant determine who is “trustworthy”, so you cant believe it.

23
Aug

Chofetz Chaim Daily 8 Elul

Chofetz Chaim Daily 8 Elul 6:3 If somebody lost a government job or contract, asur to suspect any Jew that he informed on you. Even if you hear that ploni informed on you, asur to believe it. Even if ploni is quiet, it doesnt mean he agrees to accusations. 6:4 Asur to believe rechilus even if many people told it

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23
Aug

Chofetz Chaim Daily 7 Elul

Chofetz Chaim Daily 7 Elul 6:1 Asur to believe rechilus even if it was said in the presence of many people. 6:2 Asur to believe rechilus even if said in front of ploni the subject. Even if he doesnt protest it doesnt mean he agrees to the story. Besides why would you believe someone whos saying useless info and committing

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