Chofetz Chaim Daily 28 Elul. Conclusion. If you think the shver isnt really going to support the amount promised, you can say if a) you are positive he wont fulfill (not just because he isnt wealthy) b) its a make it or break it issue for the boy 3)the boy is really all hes made to be, otherwise it cancels out! If they already made the tnaim, you could only say if you know they will act al pi din, and not just break it off.
Chofetz Chaim Daily 29 Elul If your info isnt first hand, then you can still say it IF 1)the listeners know that, and will make more serious inquiries 2)they wont break it off because of you. The Chofetz Chaim concludes his sefer by saying that the main idea is to think before you speak!!
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