Daily Halachos

9
Jul

Chofetz Chaim Daily 26 Taamuz

Chofetz Chaim Daily 26 Taamuz  6:11 Heter to suspect is only to protect yourself. It is absolutely forbidden to mistreat, release oneself from obligations to, or hate that person. 6:12 Teshuva from believing LH includes removing the story and any ill will from your heart.

8
Jul

Chofetz Chaim Daily 24-25 Taamuz

Chofetz Chaim Daily 24 Taamuz  6:7 The sin of LH is commonly caused by not judging favorably. 6:8 It is much worse if the subject is a Talmid Chacham, whom one must try harder to judge favorably. Chofetz Chaim Daily 25 Taamuz  6:9 Anything that is asur for someone to SAY, is also LH to BELIEVE. 6:10 One is allowed

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5
Jul

Chofetz Chaim Daily 22-23 Taamuz

Chofetz Chaim Daily 22 Taamuz 6:3 If someone wants to tell you LH, ask him if there will be toeles for you to listen. Otherwise asur. 6:4 Mitzva to listen to LH IF: 1) Letting speaker finish his story will allow you to show listeners its false. 2) Listening to angry speaker will vent his anger and prevent from spreading

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4
Jul

Chofetz Chaim Daily 21 Taamuz

Chofetz Chaim Daily 21 Taamuz  6:1 Asur to BELIEVE LH, as it says Lo sisa sheima shav. Believing is worse than speaking. 6:2 Asur to LISTEN to LH. Mutar if there is a valid toeles, for example you’ll be able to protect yourself/others.

3
Jul

Chofetz Chaim Daily 20 Taamuz

Chofetz Chaim Daily 20 Taamuz 5:7 Asur to degrade someone’s belongings i.e. to say ploni’s store sells bad quality items. 5:8 It is worse when two people say LH, because it is more damaging.

2
Jul

Chofetz Chaim Daily 19 Taamuz

Chofetz Chaim Daily 19 Taamuz  5:5 Saying that someone is weak can damage him for shidduchim or getting a job. Asur to say that ploni isn’t as rich as thought to be, if it will make it hard for him to get a loan. 5:6 RULE: It depends who you are talking about. A positive for one person may be

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1
Jul

Chofetz Chaim Daily 17-18 Taamuz

Chofetz Chaim Daily 17 Taamuz 4:12 To repent for LH, one must ask subject mechila (only if he was hurt; socially, emotionally, etc.) It is impossible for a habitual LH speaker to ask mechila from everyone he pained. 5:1 If you see someone doing sins* bein adam l’chaveiro, (ex. not lending money that he could afford) you must not tell

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28
Jun

Chofetz Chaim Daily 15-16 Taamuz

Chofetz Chaim Daily 15 Taamuz  4:9 If you see someone has bad middos, you may not badmouth him because he probably doesn’t realize the severity of his actions. Instead, influence him to change. 4:10 You may tell your children or students to stay away from a person with bad middos. However, you must explain why you are telling them. Chofetz

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27
Jun

Chofetz Chaim Daily 14 Taamuz

Chofetz Chaim Daily 14 Taamuz 4:7 One may publicly degrade the actions of someone who has no fear of G-d and clearly doesn’t regret his sins. He may be shamed until he mends bad ways. Do not judge him favorably. *According to contemporary Halachic authorities, even if the subject is a sinner, they will most likely be classified as a

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26
Jun

Chofetz Chaim Daily 13 Taamuz

Chofetz Chaim Daily 13 Taamuz  4:5 If the person you saw doing the aveira isn’t wholesome, won’t accept your rebuke & is likely to repeat the sin, you may tell someone who can influence him to repent. If two people saw, they may tell Beis Din to rebuke him. 4:6 You may tell that influencer, even if he may leak

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