Chofetz Chaim

20
Nov

Chofetz Chaim Daily 22 Cheshvan

Chofetz Chaim Daily 22 Cheshvan  6:3 If someone wants to tell you LH, ask him if there will be toeles for you to listen. Otherwise asur. 6:4 Mitzva to listen to LH IF: 1) Letting speaker finish his story will allow you to show listeners its false. 2) Listening to angry speaker will vent his anger and prevent from spreading

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19
Nov

Chofetz Chaim Daily 21 Cheshvan

Chofetz Chaim Daily 21 Cheshvan  6:1 Asur to BELIEVE LH, as it says Lo sisa sheima shav. Believing is worse than speaking. 6:2 Asur to LISTEN to LH. Mutar if there is a valid toeles, for example you’ll be able to protect yourself/others

18
Nov

Chofetz Chaim Daily 20 Cheshvan

Chofetz Chaim Daily 20 Cheshvan  5:7 Asur to degrade someone’s belongings i.e. to say ploni’s store sells bad quality items. 5:8 It is worse when two people say LH, because it is more damaging.

17
Nov

Chofetz Chaim Daily 18-19 Cheshvan

Chofetz Chaim Daily 18 Cheshvan 5:2 Asur to tell people that ploni is weak/not smart etc. because this will damage him socially & financially. 5:3 See sefer for more details. 5:4 Worse to say that ploni isn’t such a scholar; e.g. if he’s a Rabbi, it will damage his spiritual influence and livelihood. If he’s a newlywed, it will embarrass

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14
Nov

Chofetz Chaim Daily 16-17 Cheshvan

Chofetz Chaim Daily 16 Cheshvan 4:11 One seeking info about a potential shidduch/partner may ask others, and they may say necessary info (See rechilus Chap. 9 for more detail). However you must explain why you are asking so it will be with proper intention. One MAY NOT ask those who do not like the subject. Chofetz Chaim Daily 17 Cheshvan

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13
Nov

Chofetz Chaim Daily 15 Cheshvan

Chofetz Chaim Daily 15 Cheshvan  4:9 If you see someone has bad middos, you may not badmouth him because he probably doesn’t realize the severity of his actions. Instead, influence him to change. 4:10 You may tell your children or students to stay away from a person with bad middos. However, you must explain why you are telling them.

12
Nov

Chofetz Chaim Daily 14 Cheshvan

Chofetz Chaim Daily 14 Cheshvan  4:7 One may publicly degrade the actions of someone who has no fear of G-d and clearly doesn’t regret his sins. He may be shamed until he mends bad ways. Do not judge him favorably.  *According to contemporary Halachic authorities, even if the subject is a sinner, they will most likely be classified as a

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11
Nov

Chofetz Chaim Daily 13 Cheshvan

Chofetz Chaim Daily 13 Cheshvan  4:5 If the person you saw doing the aveira isn’t wholesome, won’t accept your rebuke & is likely to repeat the sin, you may tell someone who can influence him to repent. If two people saw, they may tell Beis Din to rebuke him. 4:6 You may tell that influencer, even if he may leak

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10
Nov

Chofetz Chaim Daily 11-12 Cheshvan

Chofetz Chaim Daily 11 Cheshvan  4:1 Asur to degrade someone about his parents’ negative actions or his own past misdeeds. Asur to tell about someone actively doing something wrong bein adam l’Makom. 4:2 Even a slight wrongdoing is asur to report i.e. not keeping a minhag etc. Chofetz Chaim Daily 12 Cheshvan  4:3 If you see an average Jew doing

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7
Nov

Chofetz Chaim Daily 9-10 Cheshvan

Chofetz Chaim Daily 9 Cheshvan  3:5 Asur to say LH in a sneaky fashion, i.e. to pretend you don’t realize that ploni acts this way or that what you’re saying is negative 3:6 Asur to say LH even if you know in advance that it wont cause any harm to the subject. Chofetz Chaim Daily 10 Cheshvan  3:7 One must

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